You might be mixed with German, English, Scottish, and Dutch; or you could just be half English and half Irish. Just kidding If he is an immigrant from Asia, you just have to use your best judgment to see how culturally attached he is. Figure out what his views are on religion, relationships, sex, marriage, and cuddling. Some of you ladies seem too scared to do that and you make the biggest mistake you can possibly make: you make very stereotypical assumptions.But imagine if you were part Irish (born and raised in America) and an Asian guy liked you. You just assume that “Well, he’s Japanese so he must be into hardcore Anime porn and living the Samurai lifestyle, right?! Maybe the Japanese guy who just moved here from Tokyo is a fan of Sushi and Samurais but actually has a passion for Ebony porn instead of Anime?
You’d be surprised how many of these requests I get.
When it comes to Asian-Americans (especially if they were born and raised in the States), there’s a high chance that they are completely and totally Americanized, thus you really don’t have to do much in terms of changing yourself.
Treat them like any other American person you know and you won’t have a single problem. Think about it like this: Let’s say that you’re a White girl.
Chances are, you’re mixed between a bunch of European ethnicities which have all been stewed in a genetic cauldron for years and years resulting in this mixed mutt, aka, YOU.
2 where the main character (Uma Thurman) goes to train with Pai Mei, the Kung Fu master? Not to say that my hair is turning Grey or that I know Kung Fu, but I do feel like some wise old Asian guy giving advice to a bunch of White Girls/non-Asians – Random White Girl: Do asian guys do alot of sweet talking? Now comes the real Kung Fu Lesson: Although we are different and special, there are plenty of things you can keep in mind when dating us.
Wise Asian: lol i don’t know, it depends on each guy Random White Girl: What’?! Things that we have in common, things which you can read about in books that illustrate how “hey, we might be Japanese and Korean and Filipino, but we As ridiculous as it might sound to some of you white folks out there, there are a crazy list of differences between native born Asians and Asian-Americans.
In fact, I myself barely know what’s going on because there’s just too much crap swimming in our toilet.
I get comments and messages all the time asking me about how girl What? You think you’re in-tune with your Asian-ness because you drink Pearl Tea while watching Naruto? I honestly love it when I see these weeaboos who parade around their anime loving selves acting like they what’s going on with the Asian community better than us Asians.
General Rule of Thumb: Unless you can tell that an Asian-American guy is VERY attached to his cultural values and customs, treat him like you would every other American citizen. General Rule of Thumb: If he’s an Asian Immigrant, just ask him a bunch of questions and figure out how “Asian” he really is.
Get a better understanding of how he feels about his culture because when you think about it, if he is an immigrant, he chose to immigrate to your country for a reason.
Maybe that reason is because he dislikes his culture and is seeking a better opportunity – or maybe he just likes Black girls.