Last year, I liked this guy and he’d told me he liked me too. However, people at school made fun of me about that, so I never went up and talked to him.
He or she has to want to hang out, talk in person sometimes, tell friends about liking you. When my other half’s on the phone to his 24-year-old son, should he ask where his ex-wife is at? It can be a completely normal and thoughtful inquiry, while in conversation, to ask about the young man’s mother, and her well-being.
It’s far more healthy than maintaining a harsh divide with an ex, such that he doesn’t ask about her at all, and his son continues to feel tension about it.
Unless there’s some suspicion on your part that your partner’s yearning for his ex, or has an ongoing relationship with her that feels inappropriate to you, I believe you should be OK with his asking about her.
To me, it signals that he’s a decent guy trying to make his son comfortable.
She repeated this multiple times, but mostly hit me in the side and the stomach and gave me bruises that didn’t go away for a month.
I didn’t know how to stop it until my friend told me to go see the counsellor. The story is over now and new ones will arise, because you’re in an age and friendship group consumed with dating by text. You have sincere feelings, you were open and honest with him.That fixed the bullying but the things between me and the boy were never the same. First, he said that he’d lied and had never liked me, but then said that was a lie, but he’d only liked me for one week. So learn right now that relationships don’t really work that way. You’re still hurt and embarrassed from what happened.A text that someone likes you, is just a throwaway line. Your so-called “friend” is even meaner — a nasty, physical bully whom you should avoid indefinitely. Now you know to talk to a counsellor anytime someone makes you feel unsafe or actually harms you, and do it right away. But you’re the smarter, luckier one, because you’ve learned the difference between imagining someone’s nice and finding out his true personality.So ask yourself why it made you wonder about his motive. Are there other issues in the relationship you fear raising, so you focus instead on anything having to do with his ex?If yes to either, you two need to discuss what’s really bothering you.Tip of the day Someone who lies and can’t be trusted isn’t worth your time for a relationship.