So, I decided to “interrogate” some male bloggers about their experience.I want to thank all the great people who agreed to collaborate and share their story with all of us! You might already know him as I interviewed Ben a while ago.He has spent the last 5 years living on small islands in Okinawa. I spent five days with her family prior to popping the question and that gave me a great chance to see if I fit in with them. Of course proposals are pretty different in Japan and the US, but I managed a hybrid approach which is pretty much how I see our life together going forward.” “Back in the States there are a million ways to meet people and start up a conversation.
Found in Dating Japanese Women No Comments » Right now you could be destroying your romance with your Japanese girlfriend. Sure, she may be the most gorgeous woman you have ever seen (as many Japanese women are 😉 ) and you may feel emotions that you have never felt before, but very careful just how much “love” you show her.
It is important to show your love to your Japanese girlfriend, but it’s a completely different thing to smother her to the point of disgusting her.
For some men this isn’t a problem: they can keep cool and calm during even the most loving and passionate relationships.
But some men (even men who think they are strong now) crumble and degrade into babbling, love-sick wimps.
It’s this kind of love-sick, spineless jellyfish of a man that will actually turn off your Japanese girlfriend and cause her to look for more “masculine” pastures.
I’ve previously written about dating in Japan and interviewed a few of my female fellow bloggers about dating Japanese men.After publishing it, a lot of men asked questions about dating Japanese women.They were mainly concerned about how to approach a Japanese woman and cross-cultural differences that could be an issue.One good option is joining a community club or activity, though then there’s no telling if they’ll fit your age range.For my part, living on a small island just made things more difficult.It takes a certain amount of commitment to start dating when everyone will know about it in a few days.